4 Lessons Freelancers Can Learn From Naomi Osaka's Withdrawal From The French Open
Naomi Osaka, one of the world’s best-ranked tennis players, chose to prioritise mental health above the opportunity to compete at a critical tennis tournament. Here’s what freelancers in Singapore can learn from Naomi’s bold decision.
Today, more business leaders are aware that mental health impacts workplace productivity. As freelancers work with multiple clients at the same time, deadlines can be demanding. However, always prioritising freelance projects or taking on too many projects at the same time can lead to adverse effects on mental wellbeing. According to a research study, Singaporeans have one of the highest rates of major depressive disorder compared to 8 other high-income nations. Statistics from the Institute of Mental Health (IMH) also reveal that mental disorders are on the rise in Singapore.
Researchers from IMH claim that the increase in lifetime prevalence of people experiencing a mental disorder could be due to increased awareness of mental disorders and more sources of stress. Reportedly, more than three-quarters of the people with such conditions do not seek any form of professional help. While there are a handful of simple remedies to prevent mental health problems, here are 4 lessons that freelancers in Singapore can learn from Naomi Osaka’s decision.
Learn To Stand Your Ground and Say “No”
Remember the last time someone asked for a favour and you wanted to say no but also felt the pressure to succumb to external demands? Did you stand your ground or did you go along to avoid confrontation? In our society where saying no might lead to a string of missed opportunities and repercussions, not many of us are brave enough to speak our mind. As a freelancer, you might think that pushing yourself over the limit is the winning formula to grow your business. However, alway saying yes may lead to increased physical and mental deterioration that can cost more money down the road. If there is one lesson to learn from Naomi’s encounter, it is her bravery to make choices based on her personal limits despite having to say no to more money-making opportunities. Fundamentally, knowing your stress limits and learning to say no is the key to maintaining work-life balance.
1. Set Healthy Boundaries
As American author Napoleon Hill once said, “You are the master of your destiny. You can influence, direct and control your own environment. You can make your life what you want it to be.” It’s better to set and control your own boundaries than to leave them in the hands of others. Setting boundaries is an important part of establishing one’s identity but it is also crucial for maintaining your business philosophy so that you can manage client expectations without overstretching your resources. Boundaries can be physical or emotional, and they should strike a balance between being overly rigid and too versatile. Healthy boundaries fall somewhere in between.
2. Stay Humble and Apologise
While saying no and setting boundaries are perfectly justifiable for self-protection, it should be done humbly and mindfully. Like Naomi, freelancers in Singapore should not be afraid to define their role. But you should also be mindful that your actions may cause inconvenience to others. If so, be willing to face the situation humbly and apologise for any negative outcome. A quick review of Naomi’s tweet may present some valuable tips on how to do this graciously. Be truthful about your boundaries, be brave enough to own up to any shortcomings and limited abilities, sincerely apologise without reservation.
3. Focus on Solutions at the Right Time
Naomi’s solution was recognising her limits and putting a stop to her work so that she can regain mental wellness, what’s yours? All too often, the first thing we do in the face of a problem is focus on the negative situation. This could mean overextending yourself to meet a client’s unreasonable demands or working past regular hours to meet deadlines. When you choose to focus on the problems instead of implementing workable solutions and processes with long-term benefits, you’re allowing the same problems to repeat themselves. To turn failure into a gift and grow through stressful times instead of just casually going through them, you need to focus on resolving the underlying cause of those problems. Whether this means finding the right client projects or negotiating a better rate for your freelance services, focusing on solutions at the right time can be a game-changer for your freelance career in Singapore.
This guest post is contributed by ValueChampion Singapore.
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